The way you portray yourself to everyone determines whether you will be accepted or rejected. If you present yourself to a woman in the right manner, you will have a greater chance of being accepted by her. By portraying yourself the wrong way, you are more likely to be rejected; this will continue to happen for as long as you present yourself in the wrong manner. It is important that you look your best, so here are some tips of how to be more attractive to women.
Your Hair Style
Your face is the first thing that people notice about you, so it is important that you have a great hair style to accentuate your face. To find the right hair style for you, you should browse around and try different (reversible) hair styles. You can even go to an upper scale salon and see what a stylist can do for you. They are great at choosing hairstyles that match the person's personality and face shape. Make sure that before the stylists begins clipping, you know and agree to what they are doing to your hair. Afterwards, ask the stylists how you can maintain the hair style at home and until the next time you need a trim.
If you are losing your hair, DO NOT DO THE SWOOP! This couldn't clash with you anymore than any other hair style. You should either shave your head completely bald or very short. This would look great with a nicely trimmed goatee and mustache. Many women tend to find this look very sexy. Even men who aren't losing hair shave their head for this look. Make sure to constantly check your facial hairs for food and other items that shouldn't be there.
Some women are known to be turned off by excessive body hair on the upper arms, back and neck. You can speak with your stylists about this problem, if you have one, and have them shave the back of your neck. The salon may also offer temporary solutions, such as body waxing. There are also permanent options for you to use, such as laser hair removal. What you choose will determine how badly you want the hair gone and how much you are willing to spend on the work done. Waxing, of course, is much cheaper, but can be more painful.
Good hygiene can't be stressed enough. It is important that you take daily or twice daily showers. If you have a sweating issue, take more than one shower a day and carry deodorant in your car. You may also want to bring an extra shirt for those extra warm days.
To show a woman you are neat and clean, you have to dress that way. Women like men that can match and fit clothes properly. This attracts women because women are normally attracted to cleanliness. So don't wear your torn pair of jeans or the sweatshirt with the ketchup stain, have you good clothes dry cleaned to keep them looking good as new and wear them when going out to meet women.
If you have problems with picking the right clothes, have a female friend or family member help you out. You will also need to make sure that you have matching, attractive shoes to go with the clothes. Once you have cleaned up your image, you approaching women should have a different approach for your confidence.